36 lessons from NYC
In no particular order:
- You can walk as fast as you want, but you won’t get anywhere without considering those around you.
- On your worst days, something (or someone) will surprise you and show you kindness in ways you’d never expect.
- On your best days, something (or someone) will knock you down, humble you, and disappoint you in ways you’d never expect.
- There’s always someone better than you.
- There’s always someone with less than you.
- Find something to be grateful for every day.
- A smile can disarm anyone.
- You’ll only be happy if you’re true to yourself.
- You are defined by the company you keep.
- You have the ability to reinvent yourself. Every day.
- Most of the limits you see are created in your own mind. Sprint past them when possible and refuse to get in your own way.
- Relationships take work.
- There is someone for everyone.
- Everyone is beautiful in their own way. Look for this beauty in everyone you meet.
- Set aside time to nurture those who are important to you.
- Communities are essential. No matter your interests, there is one for you.
- Learn how to set boundaries and take care of yourself.
- Prioritize.
- You can view each day as a battlefield or a marvelous adventure. Your choice.
- There is always more money to be earned. Learn to be content with what you have.
- You probably have more than you need.
- You will be tested. Eventually, you will realize you are capable of much more than you think.
- Grocery stores don’t need to accommodate small cars. People get along just fine with handbaskets.
- It doesn’t matter what it looks like or how many square feet, home is where the heart is.
- Movie stars are people, too.
- You can put your body through some really grueling activities. It’s capable of amazing things. Be kind to it. You only get one.
- Get a bike. And get a damn good lock. If you don’t have a good lock, carry your front tire with you.
- It doesn’t matter how cute your shoes are, they better be comfortable and durable.
- The outdoors are closer than you think. Don’t neglect blue skies and trees.
- There is no reason to eat shitty food.
- Challenge yourself to find something new and try something new regularly.
- Refuse to settle.
- There are plenty of jobs. If you don’t like the one you have, life is too short to waste another day.
- Be open — to possibilities, different opinions, new ideas, different beliefs, new opportunities. If you are willing, your world will explode with options. Your choice.
- Everyone is creative. Express it in your own way.
- You really can create the life you want.