People want to be snapped out of their reverie. They want something different, something new. They want the unexpected to happen.
And this is why most people’s faces are tucked into their devices, mindlessly scrolling. They are searching for meaning. They want to find something that makes them feel. Anything — A photo, a comment, a message, a piece of news that makes their pulse quicken and heart skip.
What if I told you that you could be that pulse-quickener? That this is where your strongest and biggest power lives: Your ability to be somebody’s unexpected.
You could be the moment that brightens someone’s day.
This doesn’t have to be a huge, grandiose gesture. You don’t need extra time or effort. A simple hello. A thoughtful email. A friendly phone call. A message of encouragement.
Here are five more tangible ideas:
- Walk across the room and compliment a stranger.
- Pick up your phone and call a distant friend.
- Order and send lunch to a colleague.
- Leave flowers in your office.
- Hide a note for someone to find.
Though these small moments may feel risky, a place where you open yourself up to the world, a position of vulnerability, it is in those exact places where the unforgettable lies.