I see this again and again with my clients. I’ve even done it myself.
We have so many choices, so many options, it’s difficult to settle on long-term decisions and commit. Paralyzed with indecision and uncertainty, we get in our own way and waver from one idea to the next. A helpful exercise:
Envision the person you’d like to become.
Think about your work life.
Where you’d like to live.
Who you’re spending your time with.
Get detailed and really imagine it. Write it out so you can refer back to this dream often.
When you allow yourself to imagine an overall vision, it becomes an umbrella under which daily decisions can be made and choices become easier to manage.
Your future has an exponential number of possibilities. Don’t cheat yourself out of any of them.