Greatest hits

442 posts published since 2012. Here are the top 12 most visited: 12 questions to turn small talk into real talk 5 rules of hustling…

Who is glamorous?

Glamour isn’t limited to the rich or famous. And it certainly isn’t restricted to fashion, the latest gadgets, jet-setters, or a particular brand of car….

Behind the scenes

Most people don’t see the hours of practice, the nights of silence, the thinking, the planning, the frustrations, the worrying, the sacrifice. They see only…

Letting go: A skill

Most people hold onto relationships or situations longer than necessary. Stability is appealing, and change is hard. Loyalty has the potential to be faulty, however,…

Add magic

Instead of focusing on what is wrong or needs to change in your life, add something. Look for ways to fill your life with magic….

A different lens

So much of life and the way in which we interpret day-to-day interactions is a matter of perspective. Sometimes the best choice we can make…

Being “good enough”

I asked how can you ever be sure that what you write is really any good at all and he said you can’t you can’t…

Who are you watching?

Check your browser history. Which sites claim most of your time? What pages are you visiting regularly? Whose stories do you tap? And when do…

3 ways to move past small talk

Use these question cards at your next event. Listen to this podcast to connect more deeply with audiences. Make writing a habit. Observe, notice, reflect,…

Career counseling

I was asked to speak to a group of Nepali students on “Career counseling.” I wrote a few things down. When you’re uncertain, you’re uncomfortable….